How to Be Successful in Life

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Salam all my friends, today I want to talk a bit about how to achieve success.
The main purpose is to motivate myself because I always failed in what I do. T hen maybe this is my first topic, I write in English. just to try.

So first question i want to ask is what is the success?? Success means
Success is having all that you wanted to have. It's finding that you have achieved your goals or fulfilled your plans and it's waking up in the morning feeling victorious rather than feeling beaten up. Success is walking proudly in the streets with your head up high while being happy and satisfied.
What we want to find is , the successfull in world and for muslim, the most important
is the successfull in( kejayaan di akhirat).

Then how to be successfulin our life?? There is Contrary to common beliefs, there are no successful or unsuccessful people, instead there are just people who have the potential to succeed and do things that realize this potential, and people with the same potential who don’t do those things. The only thing you need to do to succeed is doing exactly what successful people do and this is the main aim of this guide. When you go through all of the pages you will acquire the mentality of a successful person and that alone will be the basis for your success.

They are some keys of how to successful in our life..

  • Don't strive for perfection - never try to be perfect, no one is perfect, set a standard and goal and do the task or job to the very best of your ability and be happy with it. As long as you gave it your best shot that's all you or anyone else can ask for.

  • Believe in yourself - develop strategies which make you more aware of yourself and what you are capable of achieving. If you believe in yourself and what you are capable of achieving then you are more likely to be successful in whatever you do.
  • Persevere - perseverance and determination are what is needed for success; if you don't give up at something you attempt then you can't fail, it's as simple as that. If something doesn't work out as planned the first time then try and try again using different methods to achieve the results that you are looking for.
  • Change - if you are not happy with what you have now, or who you are in life then the only one who can make a difference in your situation or life is you. A change could mean changing your outlook on life, your outlook on yourself, your priorities or your activities. You have no one else to blame but yourself and only you have the power to change.
  • What goes around comes around - you only get back in life what you are willing to put into it. If you are helpful, honest, truthful and positive then you will get the same back in return which can help you on your path to success, particularly in the workplace.
  • You cannot succeed alone - all successful people rely, in part, on others for their success. Every person has different skills, talents and abilities which when combined leads to an individual's success.
  • Center yourself - we all need to take time out during the day to center ourselves, by re-focusing ourselves and what we wish to achieve. We are able to accomplish more and be more effective in our tasks.
  • Set targets or goals - setting out targets or goals for yourself can help you to succeed in anything you choose. These can be daily, short term or long term targets with short term being a month or so and long term no longer than 6 months. Always set realistic targets and give yourself a date by which to reach your target. Review your targets on a regular basis to make sure they are always attainable.
  • Focus on what you want - focus on the positive and what it is you want to achieve instead of the negative or what it is that you don't want to achieve. Always look ahead instead of back and focus only on the desired end result.

  • Maybe this info can give us something that can change us..
    Ecspecially for me.. So long I try to find it. But Im still fail. But is not the end of my life.
    I will try and try my best... The most important for me is I need to word hard, get support from family
    and my friends. Also the most important,pray to allah swt. Insyallah..
    That all thanks for reading this article.. :)

    p/s-english berterabur skit. campur2.. =p

    The most important to us.. Pray to Allah Swt.Insyallah


    1. vyerheart said...:

      wow bro...Thanks for the tips

    1. Mohd Shahmi said...:

      wokeyhs.thanks for da comment. :)

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