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How to Be Successful in Life

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Salam all my friends, today I want to talk a bit about how to achieve success.
The main purpose is to motivate myself because I always failed in what I do. T hen maybe this is my first topic, I write in English. just to try.

So first question i want to ask is what is the success?? Success means
Success is having all that you wanted to have. It's finding that you have achieved your goals or fulfilled your plans and it's waking up in the morning feeling victorious rather than feeling beaten up. Success is walking proudly in the streets with your head up high while being happy and satisfied.
What we want to find is , the successfull in world and for muslim, the most important
is the successfull in( kejayaan di akhirat).

Then how to be successfulin our life?? There is Contrary to common beliefs, there are no successful or unsuccessful people, instead there are just people who have the potential to succeed and do things that realize this potential, and people with the same potential who don’t do those things. The only thing you need to do to succeed is doing exactly what successful people do and this is the main aim of this guide. When you go through all of the pages you will acquire the mentality of a successful person and that alone will be the basis for your success.

They are some keys of how to successful in our life..

  • Don't strive for perfection - never try to be perfect, no one is perfect, set a standard and goal and do the task or job to the very best of your ability and be happy with it. As long as you gave it your best shot that's all you or anyone else can ask for.

  • Believe in yourself - develop strategies which make you more aware of yourself and what you are capable of achieving. If you believe in yourself and what you are capable of achieving then you are more likely to be successful in whatever you do.
  • Persevere - perseverance and determination are what is needed for success; if you don't give up at something you attempt then you can't fail, it's as simple as that. If something doesn't work out as planned the first time then try and try again using different methods to achieve the results that you are looking for.
  • Change - if you are not happy with what you have now, or who you are in life then the only one who can make a difference in your situation or life is you. A change could mean changing your outlook on life, your outlook on yourself, your priorities or your activities. You have no one else to blame but yourself and only you have the power to change.
  • What goes around comes around - you only get back in life what you are willing to put into it. If you are helpful, honest, truthful and positive then you will get the same back in return which can help you on your path to success, particularly in the workplace.
  • You cannot succeed alone - all successful people rely, in part, on others for their success. Every person has different skills, talents and abilities which when combined leads to an individual's success.
  • Center yourself - we all need to take time out during the day to center ourselves, by re-focusing ourselves and what we wish to achieve. We are able to accomplish more and be more effective in our tasks.
  • Set targets or goals - setting out targets or goals for yourself can help you to succeed in anything you choose. These can be daily, short term or long term targets with short term being a month or so and long term no longer than 6 months. Always set realistic targets and give yourself a date by which to reach your target. Review your targets on a regular basis to make sure they are always attainable.
  • Focus on what you want - focus on the positive and what it is you want to achieve instead of the negative or what it is that you don't want to achieve. Always look ahead instead of back and focus only on the desired end result.

  • Maybe this info can give us something that can change us..
    Ecspecially for me.. So long I try to find it. But Im still fail. But is not the end of my life.
    I will try and try my best... The most important for me is I need to word hard, get support from family
    and my friends. Also the most important,pray to allah swt. Insyallah..
    That all thanks for reading this article.. :)

    p/s-english berterabur skit. campur2.. =p



    The most important to us.. Pray to Allah Swt.Insyallah




    Musim Baru 2011

    Saturday, January 22, 2011

    Salam..Lama btl tak diupdate blog ini, disebabkan busy dan ketandusan idea
    untuk menulis. Tapi tak tahu nape kini terpanggil kembali utk menulis.
    So utk pembukaan post pada tahun nie iaitu 2011, tak mahu tulis panjang-panjang
    just muqadimah sahaja. Template pon dah tukar baru, cuma nak update
    sikit lagi, nak bagi nampak kemas sedikit. huhu.. letih nk menyusun semua nie.
    Yerkla dah lama sgt tak update. huhu... Rasanya sampai sini sahaja lah utk first post.
    Harap diriku dpt mengekalkan komitmen utk terus menulis utk tahun ini. Insyallah..
    dan semoga azam-azam tahun ini tercapai. Insyallah...
    Thanks...



    Layout baru...

    Kes Buang BaYi????!!!!!!

    Thursday, August 26, 2010

    Salam...Aku tidak tahu kenapa bila bercakap kes buang bayi...
    Hati aku jadi sebak..Semuanya bermula bila td di kelas essential management.. Sir Pauzi
    bersembang pasal kes buang bayi... Hati aku sedikit tersentuh.Sebak rasa..
    Bila terpikir,terlihat gambar-gambar bayi yang dibuang...
    Penuh diruang akhbar...
    Apa salah mereka..Kenapa mereka dibuang??? Mereka tidak bersalah pun dalam hal ni.??
    Tapi kenapa semua ni terjadi?Bertapa kejamnya manusia sekarang..Sudah hilangkah
    akal fikiran yang Allah swt kurniakan pada setiap manusia???
    Bila difikirkan sebab utama mengapa perkara nie berlaku... Sumuanya berpunca dari diri sendiri..
    Terlalu percayakan cinta..Semuanya diserahkan.. Maafkan sekiranya ada yang terasa
    apabila terbaca apa yang ditulis.tapi itulah hakikatnya....
    Buat Kaum hawa.Jgn terlalu percayakan cinta korang..
    tak kemana pon..Nanti korang yang susah.Nak bagitahu kat sini.kalau dia betul2 sayangkan korang,dia tak kan sekali sentuh korang sebelum kahwin...!!!!
    Kalau btl korang nk berkorban demi cinta korang,
    KAHWIN!!!!!!...senang.. Semua masalah ni akan selesai, mungkin akan
    berkuranglah masalah buang anak.... Kesian bayi-bayi yang dibuang...
    Kemanakah Ibu Bapa mereka??? Tak berhati perut punya orang.isk3..

    Apa Salah Mereka??????!!!!!!!!

    New Concept???!!!

    Salam... Hmm ari kedua mengupdate blog..
    Sebenarnya dua tiga hari nie aku tgh memikirkan sesuatu...sama ada aku
    nk ubah konsep blog aku ni seperti dlu,atau nk tukar baru?Maksud aku
    yg lama seperti yg korang baca..kisah hidup aku yg hari2 aku tulis.Mcm diari...
    ataupun konsep baru iaitu aku nk letak artikel2 berfaedah atau berilmu..
    tp nk kena reka ayat sendiri tuh kurang mahir..ehehe....
    entah la..rasa nye mcm nk tukar konsep...
    Insyallah..tp kena slow2 lah kan... at least buat sendiri..
    jgn tiru org kan????
    hmmm....... xpela... xde byk cite sgt pon...huhuuhu....
    esok2 lusa sambung lagi.... oooo yeeahhh....
    SALAM




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    Musim Baru....Layout Baru... huhuhu

    Sunday, August 22, 2010
    Salam.... Wah..sudah lama tidak menulis blog....kali nie blog aku muncul kembali
    setelah sekian lama menyepi dengan desian layout yg baru....
    Entah kenapa hati aku tergerak utk kembali berkarya... mungkin aku terlalu
    merindui saat2 tika dlu aku sentiasa menulis dan terus menulis....
    Background yg berkonsepkan warna hijau...aku suke warna hijau...
    warna yang memberi ketenangan dalam diri aku.......
    dan ada terbaca 1 artikel,sapa yg minat warna hijau ni seorang yang ROMANTIK.haha
    btl ke?aku pon xtahu sgt... Ini hanya Intro...
    Insyallah...cerita-cerita baru dalam hidup aku akan menyusul kemudian.....
    Salam........

    Open House

    Monday, October 12, 2009
    Huhu...salam semua.. hari ini hari isnin... hari permulaan dalam minggu nie..
    sabtu dan ahad minggu lepas amat2 busy untuk pergi beraya..
    ngeh3..biasala..makan free..mmg sonok sgt2 ler.. huhu..
    rumah aku pon ada wat open house..so aku ajak dak2 beta teguh jerkla..
    bukan xnk ajak dak2 kelas..tp ada masalah2 yg tidak dpt dielakkan..
    isk3..huhu.. sorilah..nanti aku nk wat open house.. aku ajak dak2 kelas laks..
    mcm biasala... keluar je jalan mesti jem.xkira nk gi mana2 pon..
    adoiyai..naik pening.nasib baiklah aku just naik moto.. xnk bawa kereta
    coz da dpt agak mesti jem nye la..lgpon da kekurangan duit..
    nk isi minyak kereta pon x da duit..
    huhu...elaun x dpt2 lg..biasa la tu.. hehe..
    tp papepon..hari tuh seronok la walaupon keletihan gak la...
    malam tuh plak sedara mara aku dpt..huhu..
    seronok dpt jumpa diorang..diorang sume sporting2..
    mcm2 leh nanye..sembang2.. huhu..
    they all da best la... hm... rasanya itu sahaja la kot..hhuuhu..
    nanti aku update lg.. huhu...
    daaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.....
    salam semua.....

    Hari Yg Amat Menyedihkan

    Sunday, October 11, 2009
    Salam.2 3 hari lepas aku amat sibuk. So x ada masa sangat utk update blog..
    ditambah dgn kejadian yg amat menyedihkan aku..
    benda nie berlaku pada hari selasa iaitu pada pukul 10.30 pg..
    2 biji laptop, 5 external hilang.. aku sedih sgt2 pagi tuh...
    semuanya berlaku atas kecuaian semua orang..
    tp aku tidak salahkan siapa2 pon.. 
    apa boleh buat benda da nk hilang.. walaupon bukan laptop aku.
    tp aku terasa bersalah sgt2.. hurm.. 
    mungkin ada kesilapan yg dah dilakukan.. kita semua tidak sedar..
    mungkin allah swt nk tunjuk agaknya..
    hurm... xpela..aku pon da malas cerita pasal nie..
    biarlah... anggap benda nie semua menjadi pengajaran...
    itu jewkla kot...take care semua.. 
    salam........